When Life Throws You a Curveball
by Mitch Cepler
"It is not a sin to attempt and fail. It is a sin not to make
an attempt at all," is a quote that all people who stutter
should know. Whenever called upon in school to speak, I think
of this quote.
I have gone through the teasing and the embarrassment
of speaking in school. However, since the FRIENDS Conference at
Hofstra University, I have been eager to speak in school. I have
become proud of myself and more comfortable about speaking in
class.
When I began giving oral presentations in school
in sixth grade, I was extremely scared and nervous. In ninth grade,
I took a public speaking class, in which I would have to give
a speech every other week. After giving the first few speeches,
I lost all of my nervousness. The key to not being nervous is
being comfortable. I would practice at home for at least three
days prior to giving a speech. This method really helped out.
I am now in eleventh grade and I have been teased since nursery
school. When I was younger, I would retaliate to the teasing.
However, now I try to ignore the teasing. I actually feel better
when I, ignore it rather than retaliating because I don't let
it bother me.
Yes, the teasing bothers me, but I view it differently.
I view it as an annoying person trying to feel good about himself,
and I know if I ignore the person he will eventually stop. If
someone does not quit teasing you, make sure you tell a teacher
or your parent. From personal experiences, I was reluctant to
tell a teacher about a problem child; however, I am glad that
I did.
The key to succeeding in life is to realize that you are
not at a disadvantage because you stutter. If you get thrown a
curveball, don't just watch it go by you, but hit it out of the
ballpark
If you stutter, don't let it drag you down, find something
positive about it and take advantage of it. I have.
This article
is from Reaching Out, December, 1998
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