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Monday, February 06, 2012  

 

 

 

 

 

 


Thoughts on Stuttering - Teens Speak Out

What teens asked young adults who stutter | Wish my parents knew
What we don’t like about stuttering | Things I like about stuttering

What teens asked young adults who stutter:

  • Have people ever made fun of you?
  • Has stuttering stopped you from doing something you enjoyed?
  • What is the population of Americans that stutter?
  • Do you stutter more or less when you are nervous?
  • What do you think stuttering is?
  • When did you start stuttering?
  • Do you stutter when you order food?
  • What do you want to be when you grow up?
  • Do you stutter when you are at home more or out in public?
  • If a girl/guy asks you out and she/he doesn’t know you stutter, how do you tell them?
  • When I am speaking in class and I begin to stutter what should the rest of the class do? Should they wait and stare? I am really confused.
  • Do people ever stop teasing you about stuttering?
  • Do you stutter more when you are tired?
  • What’s your biggest fear about stuttering? What can make it better?

Wish my parents knew:

I wish my parents did not explain my stuttering to others as something’s wrong with him.

  • That I am not a little boy anymore. I need you to let me grow up and be a leader in the world. Don’t judge me I am no different from the other kids I’m just slow. The frog and toad are friends so help me when I fall. I will get up on my own. Thanks
  • That I am happy about all the things you do for me and that you take me to FRIENDS every year.
  • Stuttering has given me the most stress out of everything I have ever gone through.
  • I wish we could take another family trip together
  • Sometimes, I don’t need your help when I’m sticking up for myself. I love you til I die!
  • Thank you for everything!! I love you
  • I love you
  • Thank you so much. I love you
  • I will be alright in life.
  • Friends is my home away from home.
  • Friends is cool
  • I wish you knew how sensitive I am and how much you affect me and I wish you didn’t dismiss me.
  • I love being who I am and it’s ok!
  • I will like to go to this again till I’m like 30.
  • I went you to know that I love you endlessly.
  • It is to know many times what your feeling
  • I wish you'd be less protective
  • I hope to be a successful in life as you when I grow up
  • Thank you for helping me.
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  • Other:
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  • I truly love you more than life itself
  • I really don’t care if you stutter. I just don’t want you to care either.
  • I am very proud of you
  • I am more frustrated by your difficulty than you are at times because of how hard this is for you.
  • He is the more frustrating joy of my life. A true thrill!
  • I get nervous talking to you on the phone because I don’t know what to do when you block. L
  • You are my hero and someone I would like to be like.
  • I want you to know that I may not be the best parent at times, but it’t not your fault. I am sorry that I cam not always loving but I love you!!
  • You are the most sensitive and humble child in all our family
  • I accept you as you are
  • Nothing worth while comes easy in life
  • It’s ok if you stutter. I will still listen to you
  • I am very proud of you- the courage you have!
  • I don’t care that you stutter, or if you stutter for the rest of your stutter for the rest of your life. I only want you to be happy and confident with yourself.
  • You make us so proud.
  • I love you no matter what!
  • I love you who you are! Forever!
  • I am very proud of your courage
  • I want you to learn to deal with your stuttering in a healthy way and enjoy life!
  • I have never been ashamed of you and love you so much.
  • I am proud of how you work hard and not let stuttering define who you are
  • Love you- even when you stutter
  • A parent tries to protect any child, we don’t do the things we do because you stutter. We do it because that is what a parent does. (care, love and protect)
  • You have the ability to do anything you want to do in life.
  • I love you whether you stutter or not.
  • I’m sorry that I corrected you speech as much as I did when you were little…before I really understood
  • Your stuttering is not who you are. Don’t ever forget what a wonderful person who you are and that you have wonderful things to say
  • I want you to know that you are an amazing person. Stuttering doesn’t change who  you are inside.
  • You have always been my pride and joy
  • I will always be there for you
  • I love you and am proud of you because you are you.
  • I don’t have all the answers
  • Be a good thinker
  • Cant tell:
  • You are my hero- you have so much courage and strength I want you to know how much I love you and look up to you
  • I admire your courage and strength, especially speaking in front of people
  • I used to make fun of my uncle who stuttered.

What we don’t like about stuttering:

  • People think you have a lower I.Q
  • People think you can’t do anything
  • Being unable to speak my mind naturally
  • People judge people who stutter because they don’t know about stuttering
  • People finish words for you
  • People think you can’t do things
  • People make fun of you
  • Stuttering is annoying
  • I do not like to stutter
  • I can’t speak well
  • People make assumptions
  • I have to go to therapy
  • It takes me a long time to talk
  • People think you are weird
  • I can’t hear my brother
  • You get laughed at
  • Frustration
  • People are patient when I talk
  • Sometimes it gets hard to talk
  • People who I don’t like look at me weird and think I am slow. I'm not slow I just have add/adha. Let me be.
  • Makes me scared to do things
  • People are rude to you when you stutter
  • It keeps me from doing stuff I like
  • It’s had on your first time of speech.
  • Pressure
  • Pushing me along
  • Blocking
  • It’s hard to talk
  • Sometimes it makes me feel bad
  • I feel lonely
  • People finishing our sentences
  • It’s hard to get words out
  • Teasing/bullying
  • People not letting me talk
  • I hate how people think they’re greater than me
  • I hate the feeling that I can’t accomplish something
  • It makes me irritated when I can’t get a word out
  • I am out of ideas
  • Not only people make fun of you but sometimes siblings too
  • People walk away from me when I’m talking
  • People think it is a mental thing
  • When people you just meet ask if you know that you stutter
  • When I have an important thing to stay I can’t say it smooth therefore I feel left out and slow.
  • People ask me to repeat wheat I say
  • I am misunderstood
  • People who finish your sentences wrongly and then get mad at you for what they think you were going to say
  • I can’t sing clearly.
  • Being teased and interrupted.
  • I didn’t know anyone that stuttered before I came to FRIENDS
  • Difficult to speak in public
  • Tough to approach new people
  • I feel like people have to wait on me to finish
  • Makes oral reports harder
  • Lowers self esteem
  • Takes time out of  your day to go to speech class
  • People spread rumors about me.

Things I like about stuttering:

  • We get to go to FRIENDS
  • Fake stuttering is fun to do
  • Making friends
  • It’s cool that a lot of people stutter
  • Going to speech class
  • Makes us us.
  • We are unique
  • I get to be different
  • We get to meet people
  • People can help me
  • Having a completely unique stutter like a fingerprint
  • It sets me apart from others
  • I get to meet people who are special
  • I get to miss class to go to speech
  • Stuttering makes me who I am
  • Being with people I’ve met through stuttering
  • It makes you more compassionate towards others
  • You feel a part of a group
  • I have the opportunity to make friends that have more in common with me than others
  • I get to go on Facebook and practice reading aloud
  • Closer relationships with other stutters.
  • It makes me a better communicator
  • You get candy if you are good
  • Brings families closer together
  • I do stuff that is fun to practice at home
  • I have friends who care for me,, they don’t judge me for who I am
  • It’s just stuttering and not anything worse
  • I can still cheer and become captain of the cheer team
  • I am still just like everyone else
  • I can use my music talent and sing and play guitar
  • You’re not alone
  • If I feel a bump I can pull it out
  • I’m a normal teen
  • Makes me understanding of people.